“Working with Stel has changed my life in ways I didn’t think were possible. I went from constantly worrying that my world would collapse to trusting that I am being guided and that I deserve to have a peaceful life. I have learnt to be kind and loving to my inner child. This has helped me open my heart to myself and to the people I love. I also have a very mean wounded self/ego who judges me very harshly. Stel has helped me identify and tame this part of myself. Thanks to her guidance, it has now become second nature for me to tune this mean voice down and connect to Guidance instead.
Stel is incredibly patient, intuitive and generous. I have never felt judged by her, which is so important for someone like me who used to judge myself constantly. She has the ability to see your core essence and to reflect it back to you in a very loving way. She is always encouraging and supportive. I should add that she is witty and has a good sense of humor. 🙂
Before working with Stel, I tried many different therapies, but it always felt like something was missing. I would talk about my problems and the therapist would give me some advice. Stel’s approach is completely different, not only because she uses the inner bonding process, but also because of her ability to hold a beautiful space for you as a person, and not as a “patient” or “client”. I had also read several inner bonding books and taken some courses, but her guidance brought inner bonding to a whole different level, which I could not have reached on my own.
I wholeheartedly recommend working with Stel, especially if you are afraid to ‘look inside’ and deal with difficult feelings. She will take you by the hand and guide you on a path of self-discovery and self-love.” (Céline, France)
“Stel is a warm, compassionate, and gifted teacher and facilitator. With so much patience and gentleness, she has guided me into the deeper parts of myself and helped me unearth old wounds and begin the process of healing them. In our sessions, I feel comfortable sharing some of my most vulnerable feelings with Stel, without the fear of judgment. My work with Stel and the Inner Bonding process has opened my eyes to unloving patterns in myself that have negatively affected me my whole life. Now that those patterns have come into the light and I’ve gained tools to work with them, I am liberated in a way I didn’t know was possible. I believe Stel is very connected to her own spiritual source, and I consider her a spiritual guide as well as a counselor or Inner bonding facilitator. I’m very grateful to be able to work with her.” (Tara, United States)
“I have been working with Stel for 9 months. The reason I originally chose to work with her is because she claimed to have a vicious wounded self. So I figured she could show me how to handle mine. From the very beginning, I have been touched by her genuine compassion. I feel that I can show her my deepest darkest sides, and she is not scared away by them. In fact, she has shown me how to love those parts of me which have so desperately been craving my love and attention. I have learned to feel the feelings I have tried to hide away from, face and discredit the false beliefs which have kept me small and famished. Through this process wth her, I am finally seen and heard – by me. I have learned a way to give to myself the time, love and attention I need, the space to be heard and understood, and the feeling of caring I have longed for ever since I can remember. Thank you Stel.” (Natasha, Germany)
“I have been working regularly with Stel for more than a year now and I absolutely love her blend of clarity, compassion, gentleness and focus which she brings in each session. Thanks to my work with Stel I have been able to move on from a very unhealthy relationship and enjoy my first ever healthy and very loving romantic relationship. Inner Bonding can be very challenging and triggering at times and she is an expert at holding this very needed space compassionately whilst you are connecting with the deepest part of yourself. As a therapist myself, I can’t recommend her enough to my own clients.” (Steph – UK)
“Working with Stel keeps me on track learning about myself. My long held dysfunctional habits (my wounded self) influence me to avoid or abandon my inner child in many ways. Stel’s facilitation is helping me learn new ways of being, new patterns of thinking and feeling that help me relieve aloneness so I’m not alienated from myself and the world. The process is not always easy but when I think about how it helps me feel better now and how it will pay off for the rest of my life it’s worth every effort.” (Dennis, United States)